I’m not sure where to begin, my feelings are so strong that the only one who could comprehend them is my heart. It’s incredible!
In order to really experience the beauty of love, we should give it away. The more we show love, the more we can feel it in ourselves. Expressing love multiplies its effects, causing it to constantly expand and reach further and further. The more it is shared from the depths of our soul, the more it blossoms in our heart. This is why we say love comes from giving.
I often say this, the person who loves unconditionally is blessed, but the person who receives unconditional love is even more blessed. The person who is receiving it has so much love in them that they attract more and more love, which comes naturally to them because that’s what they give. It sounds like a rotation. Yes, indeed it is a rotation of love. The more we understand the idea that love remains with those who embrace it through giving and showing, the more this cycle of love continues.
Many times, humans worry about showing love, concerning that someone might not accept it or giving something back that they don’t want. It’s not that they don’t want to express it, it’s that they are scared of being rejected. They protect themselves of being hurt without thinking that by keeping that love inside, they hurt themselves even more. They deny the opportunity for love to increase and expand. Their outlook on the amount of love they will receive can diminish the true depth of love and, in turn, make them feel unhappy. At times they struggle to recognise the source of this dissatisfaction, which can come from their own reluctance to express their love.
Say what’s in your heart. Express how thankful you are for the people in your life and how much you appreciate their presence. Be genuine in your emotions and that will truly touch their hearts. So don’t be afraid to show your true feelings, it works! Just be sincere and honest with your words!
I recently heard a podcast from “Jay Shetty” that had a saying that really grabbed my attention. The idea was, there is a distinction between being loved for “who you are” and being loved for “what you do“. On the flip side, you can love someone for their character or for their actions. At all times, if you show someone love based on “who they are“, not “what they do“, that emotion is genuine. Great saying. Isn’t it? I am really impressed with you Jay, Thank you!
Connecting to “who you are” at your core is relating to your fundamental impulses. Nevertheless, the things that you do become part of a public view, earning you notoriety due to the name or fame associated with them. Once all that fame and name is gone, that love is gone. But when the person loves you for “who you are“, they love you for what you are as a person without bothering what you have or what you do, which makes a lot of difference.
Next time if you want to differentiate who really loves you, first seek, hope they are not attracted to what you do? Don’t jump on everyone who says hey “I love you“. That person might love your position or your heavy appearance that come from expensive gadgets on your body, a Rolex watch, a Dimond ring, an iPhone in your hand or may be your name attached to a big brand or anything that entice them. But one thing for sure you are not holding a first place here.
My friend, seek the love that is there even if you don’t have all of this, but the person still says, “I love you” due to “who you are” as an individual. I cherish your human qualities. I truly appreciate your character, your beliefs, and the essence of “who you truly are”!
Love! The world’s most Devine feeling, which must be expressed as often as possible!
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